Contrary to popular belief modest first dates are better than extravagant first dates for several reasons.
The most extravagant first date I ever went on was to a lounge in Chicago. I ordered a drink that came with a Bunsen Burner contraption. My date ordered a drink that came in a plastic air filled pillow. He had to pop the pillow which was filled with lavender aroma to get to the drink. It was an experience to say the least. Afterwards, we went to a jazz lounge to hear live music. The night was spectacular and I went home smitten. So why would I discourage extravagant first dates? Here’s why: